Cooking up a Curriculum
For a while now, the thought of starting formal lessons leaves me feeling overwhelmed. I am making it too complicated. In a series of email exchanges, I started using a cooking metaphor that really helped me. My friend Silvia said I should blog about it since it might help someone else too. She wrote a nice post on the big picture with curriculum using a food metaphor too since we both started talking in terms of food in our emails and it was helpful for both of us: ”Gourmet, Homemade or Junk Homeschool.”
I already know we need a homemade curriculum because our family likes certain ingredients and I rarely follow a recipe without making some changes. My problem isn’t with which type of curriculum but with the actual cooking. This is what I said to her:
I have Story of the World and Math U See. I haven’t started them yet but Hunter is ready for more. I think he will like short lessons. I am tempted to buy the Simply Charlotte Mason Planning Guide and the Books and Things DVD…but the truth is I probably already know it. I *should* know it after all the reading and processing I’ve done in the last two years. LOL So, I’m not sure about spending the money.
I will do things completely different from everyone else anyway. I haven’t read Heaven on Earth yet, but there might be some scheduling and rhythm ideas in there. I need “pulling it all together” ideas.
I’m almost there…it’s like buying all the groceries for an elaborate Thanksgiving Dinner. Gourmet recipes with all the trimmings and new recipes I’ve never tried before. I get it all home and look at all the grocery sacks with ingredients all jumbled up and realize I lost the recipes. Now I have to figure out how to put it all together and make it work and make it good. And it seems overwhelming to do all this organizing and preparing and customizing, so I think about calling off the special dinner and uninviting the guests.
Instead of going to a store or restaurant for a pre-packaged Thanksgiving Dinner, I could just grab a *few* ingredients and spices, throw a chicken in the rotisserie and creamed corn in the crock pot (a really good recipe with cream cheese but SIMPLE), peel some carrots and steam them…and eat off paper plates.
So how do I take our 1000 children’s books, which are somewhat organized not like those groceries that need to be put away, and various manipulatives and things and turn them into a simple, delicious, wholesome educational meal on paper plates? Maybe I should take a look at Ambleside Online Year 1 again and make a few substitutions on the recipe ingredients. Their Year 1 curriculum almost seems too simple, like it is not enough but they do progress rapidly to Plutarch (Year 4).
Food and farming metaphors seem to work for me. I just need to remember that I’m more like Julia Child than Martha Stewart. It’ll still taste good and be good, right?
Then we talked about one of the Ambleside Online recommendations, “50 Famous Stories Retold” by James Baldwin and my issue with this book is the stories are too short to be memorable. Silvia pointed out that this book is for narration training. Thinking of it as narration training makes it more appealing to me now. I have Story of the World and I could use that for narration training. Originally, I wanted to use SOTW as a spine with all these fabulous go-along books, because we need to get the most out of it. Yet, I should not let this prevent us from getting started. We can always read “the blurb” again later and do a more in-depth study of history another year. The blurb will be a nice review.
I’ve scratched the idea of creating a curriculum that is like a big dinner party and will think in simpler terms for book choices and content. At this age, his main diet needs to be reading, writing and math. The rest is side dishes and dessert and trying new things; or just diving in and making a big, happy mess.
I feel better already.





I’m not sure you need the SCM planning guide-it’s more of a “schedule maker” IMO. For example, it has you collect your books you’re using then you divide each one by chapter and pages on a worksheet. You use some math (LOL-the HARD part) and tells you how much you need to cover each week/month/quarter etc based on how many weeks your year is.
Some people love this type of thing, it just stresses me out to be “bound” by a certain # of pages each week.
It did have some helpful information, but nothing you probably don’t know
I’d share it with you but I borrowed a copy.
I found Cynthia Levison’s second book “More Charlotte Mason” helpful in this area though.
I wanted to “bring it together” too and ended up with a form from donnyoung.com that is just an overview of the year. I list each subject for each child and list the book/resource used and a note if it’s for the whole year or semester, etc. I then do another sheet with a “rough” idea of where I want to be by Christmas/semester end with each book.
I don’t do a weekly schedule at all-I’m hopeless at those-but I try to have that general semester guide so there’s a light at the end of the tunnel KWIM?
We school year year round but summer is basically just math and grammar/reading. The kids have lots of camps though so they end up with a good month off anyway.
We typically end up close to the end of the math book by Sept 1 so we’re ready to start a new one. This is my gage for the year-if we finish the math program in a year-we’re on track
Good luck!
Oh, this is really helpful, thank you! I don’t want to figure # of pages per day/week — bleh. A rough idea is much better. A semester guide is perfect. I’ll try to find that form you mentioned. Thanks!
I used this form as a guide but modified it so I could put extra books into each subject instead of at the bottom:
http://donnayoung.org/f10/planner-f/f-school-pdf/cos_list.pdf
But she has tons of resources-you might find something you like better.
I wanted to add that I do as much as I can with all the kids together. I have 11,8,5,11mos so this can be a challenge but I do science and history and art and “dessert” subjects together. Math, writing, grammar, and reading are at their individual levels. I do reading a loud with all of them, and the 5 yr old listens to the history books and the olders listen to the picture books and love them!
Have you seen/read A Picture Perfect Childhood: Enhancing your child’s imagination and education in 15 minutes a day by Cay Gibson?
A lovely book list by month/theme and ideas how to incorporate them-it has a great section on books and food which made me think about it with your above post
I’ve wondered if I could teach my boys together like this too. My almost 4 yo is much more interested than H at this age. And we never outgrow good picture books, do we?
I’ll check out the book you mentioned too because it sounds a lot like what appealed to me about Enki with stories and themes. Off to check out your suggestions now. Thank you!
Thanks for the direct link Ann. If I had looked at this a few months ago I would have thought I don’t have enough room to write everything, and now I realize that keeping it simple is better. I could put that on our bulletin board which is next to the bookshelf as a helpful reminder. Glad to know it works even for older children.
Cori – love the analogies, and since I don’t have a blog, I’ll have to write here. How about thinking of it as dinner with your very best friends, who come over to help you plan, chop, sauté, clean, laugh, sing & dance? When I think Thanksgiving dinner with the extended family or even friends and acquaintances, I start to stress out a bit, get that overwhelmed feeling and worry if I can pull it all together, and hoping everything goes smoothly, and everyone has a good time. But with my very best friends, I can relax, have a glass of wine, and know that whatever happens it’s all good. Sometimes with friends we plan everything, and sometimes we go by the seat of our pants. Our kids are forgiving, kind of like best friends.
Very true, Lisa, and if it is informal, my kids are helping me in the kitchen too. Good point.
I think just need to pick a few “ingredients” to start and get cookin’. Wine will help. lol Thanks for the email on your Year 0.5. I’m looking forward to seeing your Year 1 when you get it planned. These food metaphor/analogies whatever they are called is really helpful for me. I can talk cooking and food! And it sounds so much better to think of it as having a good time with my kids than “just relax!” hehe
Great post, Cori.
I’m thinking that you WILL NOT NEED the SCM planner and DVD if they are like Ann say a planner to do a weekly detail of your readings, etc, you can do that when/(if) you want.
At an old fashioned education you’ll find this: http://oldfashionededucation.com/1st_grade_schedule.pdf
or this http://oldfashionededucation.com/weeklyassignments.pdf
examples of planners.
I know you’ll do GREAT. Keep us posted!
Thanks Silvia, it’s been a while since I looked at Old Fashioned Education. I have it bookmarked and will take a look again now that we are ready to get started soon.
Hi,
My name is Kim and I found you through Silvia! Great blog you have! The fact that you buy Nutella and let your son munch on this delightful treat is enough for me to know that your homeschool will be fantastic whatever you choose to do!
But seriously I fall into the same trap as well – not knowing how to proceed or how to fill in the “gaps” with my son, who is 4 years old right now. I also need to evaluate how to make good one-on-one time with him with my 1-year-old daughter right there with us trying to copy all that he is doing
I read a great article recently at Susan Lemons blog and here is the blog post:
http://susanlemons.wordpress.com/2010/06/12/helpful-advice-for-homeschooling-elementary-school-aged-children/
It helped me calm down about curriculum (because I wasn’t calm!) and begin to remember that my son is still ONLY 4 and will develop in the appropriate time. We focus a lot on character training and enjoy reading stories about manners, kindness, etc. which I’m hoping will pay off in the next year or two when we do formal schooling (whatever formal schooling should look like!!) Blessings!
Kim (http://kimita.wordpress.com
Thank you for the nice comment and the link, Kim. I hope to see you around.
My Nutella guy will be 4 on July 2nd. I’ll cruise over to your blog for suggestions for his age. I’ve been so focused on my older boy lately.